Hello girls, I need to vent just a little. Work has been full of drama! Nothing I want anything to do with. All the stuff going on at work, is why I've had no motivation to do any blogging or extra stuff here lately, for which I'm sorry. Work has just been so exhausting and frustrating!
I do my best to stay out of "office gossip". Do you ever experience drama, or gossip at your work place? From what I hear, every place has these types of problems, some just more then others. Hopefully you're one of the lucky ones, and don't have to worry much about these issues, because it's definitely not fun to deal with. It seems like lately at my work, it's only gotten worse. To make a long story short, we have a few people at our work place that are good at acting. When I say acting, I mean good at acting like their your friends and pretending to like you, but when their around someone else, they say mean terrible, hurtful, and mostly untrue things, about you. And these certain people, basically do this with everyone, it's like their not loyal or trustworthy to anyone, at least not for very long.
Unfortunately, my husband and I both, try to go out of our way and be nice to everyone, and be thoughtful to others, so it's frustrating when I hear they've been talking about me or him or both of us when we aren't around. I knew they talked bad about others, so I guess I shouldn't be all that surprised, but it stinks when you think you've maybe become some what close to someone, or feel as though you've really helped them out and then they do things like this. It makes me feel, like what's the point in being nice to anyone at work? When most of them are just mean-spirited at heart? How can I be kind to someone I know just the other day was talking really bad about me, and for no apparent reason?
I know this may sound trivial. But I must admit, it still hurts me, if someone talks bad about me, or doesn't like me for no good reason.
Are you ever faced with people like this?
One's who no matter what you do on your end are just mean?
How do you deal with this, when at times you have to work with them?